What to Do If Parent Is in an Abusive Situation

Elder abuse thrives in silence and isolation. A daily check-in breaks that isolation with a private, consistent connection.

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The Problem

Sound familiar? You're not alone.

You suspect a caregiver, family member, or partner is abusing them

They're afraid to speak up or don't recognize the abuse

You feel helpless and don't know how to safely intervene

How I'm Alive Solves This

A simple solution that actually works.

Daily check-in provides a private daily connection that abusers can't easily block

Missed check-ins or pattern changes can signal escalating abuse

Creates a documented trail of wellness data useful for authorities

How It Works

Three simple steps.

Set Your Time

Choose when to check in each day

Tap I'm Okay

One tap confirms you're safe

Auto-Alert

Miss a check-in? Contact is notified

Features

One-Tap Check-In

Large, easy button - done in seconds

Customizable Schedule

Set your perfect check-in time

Smart Alerts

Escalating notifications if you miss

Check-In Notes

Add context like 'Going hiking today'

History Tracking

See all your past check-ins

Free to Start

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Frequently Asked Questions

I think someone is hurting my parent. What do I do right now?

Contact Adult Protective Services (APS) in their state immediately. The Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116 can connect you. Daily check-ins help you monitor the situation ongoing.

They deny anything is wrong.

Denial is common in abuse victims. A daily check-in maintains your connection without confrontation. Patterns of missed check-ins or changes in behavior provide evidence for professionals to act on.

Can the abuser prevent them from checking in?

If check-ins suddenly stop, that itself is a signal. Contact authorities for a welfare check. The absence of check-ins becomes evidence that something is preventing normal communication.

What counts as elder abuse?

Physical, emotional, financial, or sexual abuse, as well as neglect. If your parent seems fearful, has unexplained injuries, or sudden financial changes, these are warning signs. APS can investigate.